Man to Man! You are a Steward and Not a Lord Over Your Wife’s Love

Someone once said, “A man doesn’t own his marriage; he is only the steward of his wife’s love.” This statement challenges the traditional notion of a man’s role in a Christian marriage. It calls us gentlemen to a higher standard, one rooted in service, humility, and selfless love, mirroring Christ’s love for the Church. In […]

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When the Bottom Drops Out: A Man’s Crucible

Men, we live in a world that worships success. We’re bombarded with images of the ‘ideal’ man: powerful, wealthy, untouchable. But what happens when the ground gives way? When the carefully constructed facade of false manhood and worldly ideals crumble? How do we respond when faced with the raw, visceral reality of failure? Gentleman, this […]

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Men, Don’t Let Your Happiness be in Someone Else’s Head

Men, it’s time to shatter the captivity of conformity and be who God called you to be! In my early 20s, my father (who was also my spiritual father) said to me, “Russ, don’t let your happiness be in someone else’s head. I was five years into a very difficult marriage relationship. I was flailing […]

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Gentlemen: Enough with the Empty Words

Gentlemen, enough with the empty words to those we let down and hurt. They really don’t want your apology, they want to see change, and it is your responsibility to do so without excuses. Someone once said, “The best apology is changed behavior.” How many times have you uttered, “I’m sorry,” only to repeat the […]

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Mentoring Minute – Order Precedes Glory: Lessons from Pentecost

Let’s look at Acts and see a pivotal moment in the early Church – the Day of Pentecost. Before the Holy Spirit descended in tongues of fire, the apostles recognized a void left by Judas’ betrayal. They sought to restore order, prayerfully selecting Matthias to fill the vacancy among the Twelve. Subscribe to the Mentoring […]

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Men! Victim or Victor? The Choice is Yours

Men! Are you a victim? Or a victor? The Choice is Yours! It has been said, “You are not a product of your circumstances; you are a product of your choices.” Gut Check: How many times have you looked in the mirror and blamed your woman, your Ex, your past, your upbringing, your job, your […]

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Clean or Unclean? Chewing the Cud and Rightly Dividing the Word

Ever wondered what ancient dietary laws have to do with your spiritual growth? Uncover a powerful metaphor hidden in the Old Testament! This post explores how “chewing the cud” and “splitting the hoof” offer profound lessons for engaging with the Word of God. Discover how meditation, reflection, and discernment can transform your faith journey. Don’t […]

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Are you a Man or a Mannequin?

Explosive Manhood: The Fight for Your Soul The Edge: Are you a man or a mannequin? In my 20s, I heard a men’s minister make the following provocative statement: “Manhood isn’t given, it is taken!” In a culture that coddles and confuses, this statement cuts like a knife. It’s a primal roar, a call to […]

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Conquering the Inner World: A Man’s True Challenge

The world? That’s child’s play. The real battleground is within. Think you’re tough? Think you’ve got what it takes to climb the ladder, crush your competition, and seize the crown? That’s cute. But the true test of a man’s mettle isn’t external. It’s the war waged in the trenches of his own mind, the silent […]

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