Someone once said, “A man doesn’t own his marriage; he is only the steward of his wife’s love.” This statement challenges the traditional notion of a man’s role in a Christian marriage. It calls us gentlemen to a higher standard, one rooted in service, humility, and selfless love, mirroring Christ’s love for the Church. In […]
READ MORECategory: Teaching
When the Bottom Drops Out: A Man’s Crucible
Men, we live in a world that worships success. We’re bombarded with images of the ‘ideal’ man: powerful, wealthy, untouchable. But what happens when the ground gives way? When the carefully constructed facade of false manhood and worldly ideals crumble? How do we respond when faced with the raw, visceral reality of failure? Gentleman, this […]
READ MOREMen, It’s Time to Move from Dormant Destiny Into a Full Blown Eruption of Faith and Purpose
Men, let’s cut the crap. No more lukewarm faith, no more settling for mediocrity. You’ve been handed a divine gift – your potential. It’s raw, explosive, and waiting to be unleashed. The question is, what are you going to do with it? This isn’t about being “good enough” or fitting in. This is about answering […]
READ MOREMen, Don’t Let Your Happiness be in Someone Else’s Head
Men, it’s time to shatter the captivity of conformity and be who God called you to be! In my early 20s, my father (who was also my spiritual father) said to me, “Russ, don’t let your happiness be in someone else’s head. I was five years into a very difficult marriage relationship. I was flailing […]
READ MOREGentlemen: Enough with the Empty Words
Gentlemen, enough with the empty words to those we let down and hurt. They really don’t want your apology, they want to see change, and it is your responsibility to do so without excuses. Someone once said, “The best apology is changed behavior.” How many times have you uttered, “I’m sorry,” only to repeat the […]
READ MOREMentoring Minute – Order Precedes Glory: Lessons from Pentecost
Let’s look at Acts and see a pivotal moment in the early Church – the Day of Pentecost. Before the Holy Spirit descended in tongues of fire, the apostles recognized a void left by Judas’ betrayal. They sought to restore order, prayerfully selecting Matthias to fill the vacancy among the Twelve. Subscribe to the Mentoring […]
READ MOREMen! Victim or Victor? The Choice is Yours
Men! Are you a victim? Or a victor? The Choice is Yours! It has been said, “You are not a product of your circumstances; you are a product of your choices.” Gut Check: How many times have you looked in the mirror and blamed your woman, your Ex, your past, your upbringing, your job, your […]
READ MOREClean or Unclean? Chewing the Cud and Rightly Dividing the Word
Ever wondered what ancient dietary laws have to do with your spiritual growth? Uncover a powerful metaphor hidden in the Old Testament! This post explores how “chewing the cud” and “splitting the hoof” offer profound lessons for engaging with the Word of God. Discover how meditation, reflection, and discernment can transform your faith journey. Don’t […]
READ MOREAre you a Man or a Mannequin?
Explosive Manhood: The Fight for Your Soul The Edge: Are you a man or a mannequin? In my 20s, I heard a men’s minister make the following provocative statement: “Manhood isn’t given, it is taken!” In a culture that coddles and confuses, this statement cuts like a knife. It’s a primal roar, a call to […]
READ MOREConquering the Inner World: A Man’s True Challenge
The world? That’s child’s play. The real battleground is within. Think you’re tough? Think you’ve got what it takes to climb the ladder, crush your competition, and seize the crown? That’s cute. But the true test of a man’s mettle isn’t external. It’s the war waged in the trenches of his own mind, the silent […]
READ MORE