Men, Don’t Let Your Happiness be in Someone Else’s Head

Men, it’s time to shatter the captivity of conformity and be who God called you to be! In my early 20s, my father (who was also my spiritual father) said to me, “Russ, don’t let your happiness be in someone else’s head. I was five years into a very difficult marriage relationship. I was flailing […]

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Gentlemen: Enough with the Empty Words

Gentlemen, enough with the empty words to those we let down and hurt. They really don’t want your apology, they want to see change, and it is your responsibility to do so without excuses. Someone once said, “The best apology is changed behavior.” How many times have you uttered, “I’m sorry,” only to repeat the […]

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Men! Victim or Victor? The Choice is Yours

Men! Are you a victim? Or a victor? The Choice is Yours! It has been said, “You are not a product of your circumstances; you are a product of your choices.” Gut Check: How many times have you looked in the mirror and blamed your woman, your Ex, your past, your upbringing, your job, your […]

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Are you a Man or a Mannequin?

Explosive Manhood: The Fight for Your Soul The Edge: Are you a man or a mannequin? In my 20s, I heard a men’s minister make the following provocative statement: “Manhood isn’t given, it is taken!” In a culture that coddles and confuses, this statement cuts like a knife. It’s a primal roar, a call to […]

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Conquering the Inner World: A Man’s True Challenge

The world? That’s child’s play. The real battleground is within. Think you’re tough? Think you’ve got what it takes to climb the ladder, crush your competition, and seize the crown? That’s cute. But the true test of a man’s mettle isn’t external. It’s the war waged in the trenches of his own mind, the silent […]

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Manhood: The Assignment, Not the Accomplishment

In a world that often measures success by the trophies we collect and the titles we acquire, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing manhood is something we earn, a summit we reach after years of striving. But the truth is, manhood isn’t a destination; it’s a journey, an ongoing assignment with no […]

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Men, God wants you to be a “Male without Blemish!” 

Men: This is Your Wake-Up Call Are you tired of settling for mediocrity? Are you ready to break free from the chains of compromise and step into the fullness of your God-given potential? The world tells you to chase fleeting pleasures and embrace a watered-down version of masculinity, all the while often putting you down […]

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